We’ve all heard the saying: “Birds of a feather flock together.” The truth of that statement reaches deep into our spiritual walk. The company we keep often reflects the direction of our hearts and the path of our journey.
On my morning commute, I had the blessing of talking with a friend who is on fire for Jesus. Traffic jams and stress faded away as our conversation lifted us toward God’s glory and the gift of life itself. That kind of fellowship feeds the soul. “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm” (Proverbs 13:20).
But the world does not often align with a spiritual journey. Its pull is toward conformity, idolization of wealth, and the echo chambers of complaint and gossip. I’ve caught myself doing this—seeking out the complainer’s circle, indulging in the lure of rage-bait conversations. Misery really does love company, and if I need to blame, gossip, or elevate myself by putting others down, there’s always someone eager to join me. Yet Scripture reminds us: “Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character’” (1 Corinthians 15:33).
It makes me stop and ask: Am I being a voice of peace, or am I fueling the fire of division?
I even mentioned this to my God-fearing friend using TikTok as an example. That platform’s algorithm mirrors life itself: what we choose to consume is what multiplies in our feed. If I click on fights, anger, or division, I’ll see more of it. But when I engage with gospel music, sermons, or messages of encouragement, suddenly my feed overflows with light.
Life is no different—we feed our souls with either love or poison, encouragement or negativity. The choice is ours.
Too often, I fall victim to being a victim, choosing the weaker path of complaint or self-pity. But I know the truth: I must make a conscious choice to walk with those on the path of righteousness, to surround myself with God’s stewards of love and faith, and to be the kind of company that lifts others toward Him.
Closing Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for surrounding me with people who encourage me in my walk with You. Guard my heart from the lure of negativity and gossip, and give me discernment to choose company that feeds my spirit with truth, love, and light. May my own words and presence be a source of encouragement and peace to others. Draw me closer to You daily, and let my life reflect the company of Christ I keep within me.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
