If It’s Up to Anyone, It’s Up to You

How often do we expect life, circumstances, or other people to “figure things out” for us? Deep down, we often hope some outside force will step in—a financial windfall, an inheritance, or someone close to us changing just enough to make our lives easier.

It’s human nature. From infancy, we were cared for, fed, and provided for. In adolescence, many of us still lived with bills paid, meals prepared, and shelter given. A part of us still longs for that ease—for someone else to carry the weight.

Even in small ways, I notice it in myself. When I type a word and can’t quite remember the spelling, I expect autocorrect to fix it. I rely on technology to cover for me instead of learning it properly. It’s a small example, but it mirrors a deeper truth: too often, we wait for others to do what we must take ownership of ourselves.

That’s why the phrase matters: If it’s up to anyone, it’s up to you.

In faith, this applies to our relationship with God as well. God is not a genie granting wishes or a caretaker who does everything for us. He is a partner who meets us in our effort. Scripture reminds us, “Faith without works is dead” (James 2:26). We can’t just wait for life to change—we must step forward in responsibility, in integrity, in courage.

God blesses our steps when we take them. Look for the opportunities He places in front of you. Don’t shirk responsibility. Don’t wait for someone else to live your life. Do the right things—not because they’re easy, but because they’re right. And as you do, you’ll find God walking alongside you, strengthening your efforts.

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” — Philippians 4:13

Closing Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for reminding me that responsibility begins with me. Too often I wait for someone else to fix what only You and I can work through together. Give me the courage to take the steps I’ve been avoiding, the wisdom to know what is mine to do, and the faith to trust You with the rest. Strengthen me so that in every action I take, I honor You. Guide my choices, bless my efforts, and let my life be a reflection of Your partnership with me.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.